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"One of the frightening conclusions we have is that what separates honest people from not-honest people is not necessarily character, it's opportunity."

Everybody Lies, And That’s Not Always A Bad Thing

Everybody Lies, And That’s Not Always A Bad Thing

"One of the frightening conclusions we have is that what separates honest people from not-honest people is not necessarily character, it's opportunity," he said.

These small lies are quite common. When we lie, it's not always a conscious or rational choice. We want to lie and we want to benefit from our lying, but we want to be able to look in the mirror and see ourselves as good, honest people. We might go a little too fast on the highway, or pocket extra change at a gas station, but we're still mostly honest... right?"

I Asked a Psychopath How to Stop Caring About Rejection

I Asked a Psychopath How to Stop Caring About Rejection

"Well, no. I'm a professor and a scientist so my whole life is about probabilities. Everything for me is a percentage. For example if I think something's against me at about 20:1, I'll put in 20 different proposals or versions to make sure I get what I want. Doing that trains your expectations too. If your chances are 20:1 and you only put in one attempt, then you can't get upset if it doesn't work."